Domestic violence and abuse in same sex relationships
Submitting Institution
University of SunderlandUnit of Assessment
Social Work and Social PolicySummary Impact Type
SocietalResearch Subject Area(s)
Studies In Human Society: Other Studies In Human Society
Summary of the impact
Impacts of this case study are national, regional and local in government
departments and providers of domestic violence and abuse (DVA) services
and in lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans (LGBT) specialist services. They
include evidencing DVA in same sex relationships as a considerable social
problem; identifying and improving understanding about specific
vulnerabilities, abusive behaviours and help-seeking behaviours; the
development of training across mainstream, DVA and LGBT sectors; the
development of existing risk assessment tools to better reflect the
experiences of victim/survivors in same sex relationships; and in raising
awareness of DVA in same sex relationships in LGBT communities.
Underpinning research
The original, multi-method research (Jan 2005-September 2006), was funded
by the ESRC in the project: `comparing love and violence in same sex and
heterosexual relationships. This research is the first of its kind from a
comparative social science perspective focussing as it does on women and
men across gender and sexuality. The research was collaborative between
Donovan (University of Sunderland, 1996-currently), and Hester (previously
of University of Sunderland until 2003) at Bristol University. Methods
included a national community survey of `what happens when things go
wrong' in same sex relationships; focus groups with heterosexual women,
men, lesbians and gay men; and interviews with 67 heterosexual women, men,
and self-defined non-heterosexual women and men. The survey was designed
to allow comparison with the British Crime Survey (BCS) as a proxy for the
heterosexual experience of domestic violence. Interviews focussed on
respondents' `worst' and `best' relationship experiences so that accounts
of love and violence could be explored.
Specific insights include:
a. DVA (when one partner exerts power and control over the other partner
using physical, financial, sexual, emotional, isolating, threatening
behaviours) is a substantial problem in same sex relationships in the UK;
b. DVA in same sex relationships is often not recognised as such because
of the impact of the public story which identifies DVA as a heterosexual
problem of men for women; as a problem of predominantly physical violence;
and as a problem of gender in that the `bigger, stronger' embodied male
exerts power and control over the `smaller, weaker' embodied female';
c. The public story also impacts negatively on the help-seeking of
victim/survivors in same sex relationships as they fear responses of
disbelief, minimisation, denial and/or homo/bi-phobia; and because of the
subsequent gap of trust between these victim/survivors and mainstream and
specialist DVA services. For example, findings showed that the police were
the least often reported to out of a list of ten potential sources of
help/support whilst the British Crime Survey shows that the police are the
second or third choice for heterosexual women (depending on whether
friends and family are grouped together or separately);
d. mutual abuse, rather than being common amongst same sex relationships
(because of the assumption made that two women or two men must be
`equal'), is rare and in most cases one partner exerts power and control
over the other.
e. those in first same sex relationships were often at risk of
experiencing domestic violence because they did not `know' what to expect
in a same sex relationship and/or believed it to be normal;
f. LGBT DV training and awareness raising is required amongst mainstream
and DV specialist agencies; and
g. raising awareness is required among LGBT communities.
Subsequent research (March-June 2010) by Donovan explored the treatment
of LGBT DV victim/survivors by the national DV strategy as enacted through
the Multi-Agency Risk Assessment Conferences (MARACs) and Independent
Domestic Violence Advocates (IDVAs). This strategy focuses resources on
those victim/survivors at the highest risk.
Nationally LGBT referrals to the MARAC are disproportionately low. A study
exploring barriers to referring LGBT victim/survivors to MARACs identified
the following insights:
a. training and awareness raising about LGBT DV is required for agencies
potentially referring victim/survivors to the MARACs but especially the
police particularly in relation to the use of the risk assessment tool and
the specific vulnerabilities of LGBT victim/survivors of DVA;
b. most referrals to MARACs are from the police yet very few LGBT
victim/survivors report to the police so they are unlikely to be referred
to the MARAC;
c. domestic violence in same sex relationships is not recognised either
within LGBT communities or within mainstream or specialist agencies;
d. the public story about DV — whilst accurate for the majority of cases
of domestic violence — should not be the only model portrayed in the
literature of agencies or in domestic violence campaigns.
References to the research
The funding was from the Economic Research Council for £295,000 for which
there is an end of grant report.
1. Donovan, C.; Hester, M.; Holmes, J.; McCarry, M. (2006)
Comparing Domestic Abuse in Same Sex and Heterosexual Relationships.
Interim Report November.
2. Donovan, C. & Hester M. (2008) `because she was my first
girlfriend, I didn't know any different': Making the case for
mainstreaming same-sex sex/relationship education.
Journal of Sex Education, Vol 8(3): 277-287
3. Donovan, C. & Hester, M. (2010) `"I hate the word
`victim": an exploration of recognition of domestic violence in same sex
relationships' Social Policy and Society 9(2): 279-289.
4. Donovan, C. (2010) Barriers to Making Referrals of Lesbian,
Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered (LGBT) victim/survivors to the MARAC and
Recommendations for Improvement: A Study of IDVAs, MARAC Coordinators and
PPU Detective Inspectors Within the Northumbria Police Force Area. July
5. Donovan, C. & Hester, M. (2011) `Seeking help from the
enemy: help-seeking strategies of those in same sex relationships who have
experienced domestic abuse' in Child and Family Law Quarterly,
23(1): 26-40.
6. Donovan, C. & Hester, M. (2011) `Exploring Emotion work in
domestically abusive relationships' in J. Ristock (Ed) Intimate
Partner Violence in LGBTQ Lives, Routledge
Details of the impact
Before this research was carried out very little was formally known about
domestic abuse in same sex relationships. The research has helped to raise
awareness of this hidden problem within national government, among
organisations in the North East and nationally that support victims of
DVA; and within the LGBT community.
Both research projects have been picked up and cited by national
policymakers. The ESRC end of grant report was cited in both volumes of
the House of Commons Home Affairs Committee Domestic Violence, Forced
Marriage and "Honour"-Based Violence Sixth Report of Session 2007-08,
Volumes I and II [1] as evidence of the extent to which lesbians, bisexual
women and gay men can be victim/survivors of DVA and of the particular
difficulties lesbians and bisexual women face in seeking help. In The
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trans Public Health Outcomes Framework
Companion Document, (2013) National LGB&T Partnership Public
Health England, Department of Health [2], the work was cited as evidence
of the social problems faced by those living in same sex relationships and
underpins the recommendations focussing on improving services and
responses to victim/survivors of DVA in LGBT relationships. The research
on MARACs has been cited in the Home Office Research Report 55 Summary
Supporting high-risk victims of domestic violence: a review of
Multi-Agency Risk Assessment Conferences (MARACs) (Steel,
Blakeborough & Nicholas, 2011) [3] to support the findings and
recommendation that those in minority groups, including LGBT
victim/survivors are underrepresented in MARACs and as a source of
recommendations for improving access to MARACs.
The ESRC research continues to contribute to changing practice among DV
support agencies. Stonewall Housing used findings to secure funding for
the national LGBT DVA forum, a conduit for sharing best practice, research
and improving services for LGBT victim/survivors [4]. Within the North
East, a steering group used the research to apply for the first regional
LGBT DV development worker (funded by Northern Rock Foundation in 2009 for
three years initially, and since, 2013, for a further year until Sept 2014
and thereafter for 2 years dependent on matched funding). In addition to a
range of activities to raise awareness of LGBT DV in the region, the
development worker has drawn on the research to create and roll out
specific training on the topic for all service providers and a Train the
Trainers course (these have occurred between 2008- currently). Trainees
for the latter come from a range of agencies across the region committed
to cascading the training within their geographical areas. Separately, the
MARAC report led to further funding from Sunderland DVA partnership for
specific regional training for mainstream and specialist DVA services
focussed on referring LGBT victim/survivors to MARACs [5].
The ESRC research has also influenced practice on a national level among
agencies that traditionally have only experienced working with
heterosexual victims of DVA, thus increasing the support available to LGBT
victims around the UK. For example, Co-ordinated Action Against Domestic
Abuse (CAADA) used the research to inform the input on LGBT
victim/survivors on their national training course for IDVAs [6]. In
Cardiff the Dyn Project, part of the Women's Safety Unit, were influenced
by the research to develop a risk assessment check list for gay men
recognising their vulnerability to sexual violence and in their evaluation
recommended further work and research on the risk assessment form in
relation to gay and heterosexual men [7]. The current Community Safety
Commissioner for Brighton and Hove Council, formerly of the Dyn Project
and CAADA said of the research `as it currently stands, it remains one of
the most important yet accessible pieces of work of its kind for these
communities in the UK' [6]. Additionally, Donovan has been invited to
speak at 12 practitioner-led dissemination events, ranging from Scottish
Women's Aid (2009), National Rape Crisis Annual Conference (February
2011), to Cheshire DV Forum Event (April 2010) promoting the issue to much
wider groups of practitioners. The Learning Development Coordinator of
Scottish Women's Aid said the ESRC research provided a way of seeing
similarities and differences between heterosexual and LGBT domestic
violence and for the agencies providing services to these different groups
`it provided an impetus and a focus to strengthening our work together'
[8].
Great effort has been made to disseminate the research to wide an
audience as possible to raise awareness of DV within LGBT relationships.
The Coordinator of the national LGBT DV Forum identifies the research
`groundbreaking' [4] and it appears on their website — as it does on the
website of Broken Rainbow the national helpline for LGBT victim/survivors
of DVA (Donovan is on the Board) and Stop Domestic Abuse an LGBT DV
project in Scotland. The programme manager of the Safety and Justice for
Victims of Abuse at the Northern Rock Foundation said of the research `I
read lots of research — mostly it just gets filed — this is a study that I
have kept referring to and kept recommending to others — good sign' [9].
Since 2007 Donovan has appeared on five radio programmes (including local
radio in Bristol, Women's Hour in June 2008, and Pride Radio in Newcastle,
July 2011) and research has featured in the Sunderland Echo, the Guardian
newspaper and Diva a national monthly magazine for lesbians and bisexual
women. The research also informed a new play `A Twist of Lemon' exploring
domestic violence in lesbian relationships. It toured for four weeks in
2008, reaching 2500 audience and workshop participants. Co-Founder and
Artistic Director of Open Clasp said `this research was invaluable in
supporting our understanding of the issues and its complexities, and
directly informed the script writing process, plus the workshops that were
facilitated after the shows' [10].
Sources to corroborate the impact
- House of Commons Home Affairs Committee (2008) Domestic Violence,
Forced Marriage and "Honour"-Based Violence Sixth Report of Session
2007-08 Volume I, page 22 footnotes 39 and 43; House of Commons
Home Affairs Committee (2008) Domestic Violence, Forced Marriage and
"Honour"-Based Violence Sixth Report of Session 2007-08 Volume II,
paragraph 5.3.3 page 217, footnote 166
- Williams, H.; Varney, J.; Taylor, J.; Fish, J.; Durr, P.; Elan-Cane,
C. (2013) The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trans Public Health Outcomes
Framework Companion Document, Department of Health, page 18
- Steel, N.; Blakeborough, L.; Nicholas, S. (2011) Research Report 55
Summary Supporting high-risk victims of domestic violence: a review of
Multi-Agency Risk Assessment Conferences (MARACs)
http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/publications/science-research-statistics/research-statistics/crime-research/horr55/horr55-report?view=Binary,
page 22 footnote 53
- Development Manager and Coordinator of LGBT Domestic Abuse Forum,
based in Stonewall Housing, written response concerning impact of impact
of ESRC research (Supplied on request from HEI)
- Development worker at North East Domestic Abuse Project (NEDAP)
focussing on domestic violence and abuse in LGBT relationships, hosted
by Victim Support written response concerning impact of impact of ESRC
research (Supplied on request from HEI)
- Community Safety Commissioner for Brighton and Hove Council, formerly
of the Dyn Project in Cardiff and CAADA a written response concerning
impact of impact of ESRC research (Supplied on request from HEI)
- Robinson, A.; Rowlands, J. (2006) The Dyn Project: Supporting Men
Experiencing Domestic Abuse Final Evaluation Report pages 13 and 60
http://www.cardiff.ac.uk/socsi/resources/Dyn_Final_Evaluation_Report.pdf
page 22 and 29
- Learning Development Coordinator, Scottish Women's Aid concerning
impact of impact of ESRC research (Supplied on request from HEI)
- Programme Manager: Safety and Justice for Victims of Abuse, Northern
Rock Foundation, written response concerning impact of impact of ESRC
research (Supplied on request from HEI)
- Artistic Director, Open Clasp Theatre Company, Newcastle written
response concerning impact of ESRC research (Supplied on request from
HEI)